love is not all you need
Sorry, John Lennon. You’re Wrong. This blog could have been entirely about love. It’s certainly a rich enough subject, in all the variations – filial, romantic, sexual, parental, environmental,...
View Articleletting love identify itself
While working on a collaborative presentation with a friend and colleague recently we were reflecting on the non-traditional nature of our relationship. You see, we’d dated for over a year, quite...
View ArticleThe Magic Two Words to Make Relationships Work
I don’t normally use clickbait-type headlines, but I recently came across some gold content buried deep in a great article in Business Insider. I know, you already visit B.I. for all your relationship...
View ArticleUnlikely Love
Never tell me the odds. – Han Solo There’s a friend of mine, who I care about a lot, and who I’ve known for years, who used to be sure he would live his life alone. He knew he was a nice guy, he was...
View ArticleHigh-Bandwidth Love
I’ve been diving back into the concept of antifragility in a big way. That’s the…
View ArticleThe Hell of Mindful Loving
Here’s a quick example of how people who spend a good portion of their time…
View ArticleWhy I Love Natasha
Full disclosure: this is a birthday post for my partner. I’m pretty sure I say…
View ArticleHow to Marry Well
Once again I am letting my personal life dictate the direction of my writing. Tomorrow…
View ArticleShould We Take a Break? Or Have a Fight?
My parents are wonderful, but there’s one key area where they let me down in…
View ArticleThe Boundaries of Love
This is one of those trick titles – click bait, of a sort – that…
View ArticleRest Stops on the Relationship Road
Breakups are hard. Even good breakups are difficult — the ones where you both say…
View ArticleThe Relationship Ferris Wheel (Introduction)
This is the first part of a five-part series over the next few weeks describing a process used primarily in graphic facilitation. It was developed by Martin Haussmann, one of the founding members of...
View ArticleThe Relationship Ferris Wheel Part 1: Building the Foundation
Alright, now you have your pen and your paper (and maybe the printout) and you’re all set to create your own Relationship Ferris wheel. Just so you’re aware, this exercise is going to “build” the...
View ArticleThe Relationship Ferris Wheel Part 2
The Relationship Ferris Wheel series is an exercise you can do individually or with your partner designed to help you move towards a more intimate relationship. You should read the introduction, and...
View ArticleThe Relationship Ferris Wheel Part 3
This is the first part of a five-part series designed to help you build the intimate relationship you’ve always wanted. Though the process is primarily used in-person by a graphic facilitator, you can...
View ArticleThe Relationship Ferris Wheel: Part 4
This is the first part of a five-part series designed to help you build the intimate relationship you’ve always wanted. Though the process is primarily used in-person by a graphic facilitator, you can...
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